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So You Can Fuck Us, What’s Next? // Going Beyond Sex With Trans Women | Viva La Luna

I read this incredible article about having sex with trans women, and there’s also a pretty comprehensive zine called Fucking Trans Women that I would recommend though I have only skimmed it. After seeing both of these exhaustive resources on how to gender a trans woman’s body and how to have sex with her, I began thinking of how people already only value us for sex. It’s definitely important to have great affirming sex and less awkward or awful moments, and I want to push this conversation forward about loving trans women beyond sex.

It’s within my experience, and the experience of at least a dozen trans women of color that I know, that we are the first to be disposed of in intimate relationships. By “dispose,” I mean when life gets hectic for our partner(s), we are the ones who take the least priority and are the first “stressor” to be cut off. This is definitely an acceptable thing to do when someone is genuinely having their life fall apart and cannot maintain a relationship, so I am not advocating that every person stay in a relationship with a trans woman. I’m simply noting a theme that has been true for me and many trans women I’ve talked to about intimate relationships.

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he loves it

Alice!

Alice!

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I call bullshit

i woke up to this is my email from a friend. thanks buddy.

i woke up to this is my email from a friend. thanks buddy.

Bing pretending to be Alice

Bing pretending to be Alice

When I was little I though an old man lived in that big cube ontop of city hall and made all the important decisions in exchange for pb&j samiches.

When I was little I though an old man lived in that big cube ontop of city hall and made all the important decisions in exchange for pb&j samiches.

Hi ontariawful

Hi ontariawful